which is correct?

Lonely and horny   Tue Oct 28, 2008 8:26 pm GMT
1. Tom S. is a cute boy who I want to make out with.
2. Tom S. is a cute boy whom I want to make out with.
Another Guest   Wed Oct 29, 2008 4:59 am GMT
Tom S. is a cute boy with whom I would want to make out if I swung that way.

How to remember: whom and him both end in "m", and both can fulfill the same role. So ask yourself: would you say "Tom S. is a cute boy, and I want to make out with him", or "...and I want to make out with he"? If "him", then use "whom".
Skippy   Wed Oct 29, 2008 5:45 am GMT
Another Guest is right, but typically you would say "Tom S. is a cute boy I want to make out with."
Uriel   Thu Oct 30, 2008 3:09 am GMT
I'm not sure I could bring myself to use "whom" and "make out" int eh same sentence; it would kill the mood! ;P

If you are using "who" and it is at all associated with a preposition (to, by, around, with, under, etc.), you change it to "whom". It's silly and, I think, pointless, but it's in the rule book somewhere, and we all learn it in school -- and then usually ignore it in natural speech -- although that's a personal and probably dialectical preference, of course, and I shouldn't generalize.